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In this episode, I dive into the critical topic of money mindset, which I call the battlefield of our finances. I’ll share practical tools to manage the emotions that come up, helping you stay unstoppable.
From simple breath exercises to using a three-step question process, getting outside, and taking a financial snapshot—these actionable steps are designed to help you navigate financial breakdowns effectively. Let’s tackle these challenges together, ensuring you have everything you need to simplify, solidify, and scale your money mindset.
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0:00 – Episode overview
1:49 – Fear showing up in your finances
5:09 – Breakdowns
6:29 – Breath Exercises to overcome breakdowns
7:06 – Having a coach in your corner
7:56 – Getting outside
8:20 – 3 question process to regain control
12:07 – Additional tools like EFT and journaling
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Conquering Financial Fears: Tools for a Stronger Money Mindset
Welcome Back to Your Money Your Life Podcast
We’ve been talking about quick action steps to help you get into momentum move forward within your finances without the overwhelm. We talked about, you know, managing your expenses and defense. Last week, we talked about the offense and the money within your business and four common problems that we see and like how to shift through those move forward. Today, though, we’re going to talk about the battlefield, which is money mindset. And this is going to be geared around tools to help you when those emotions come up, when those difficult things happen so that you can truly be unstoppable. So let’s get to it.
Let’s Talk Battlefield and Money Mindset
Welcome back to the year money your life podcast. I’m pretty excited for today’s episode. We’ve been talking, you know, action steps to help you move forward within your finances and really giving you a clear picture of what this should look like. We talked about managing your money. We talked about the offensive side, which, you know, making money. That was last week. And today we’re going to talk Battlefield.
The Primary Part of the Battlefield
And the primary part of the battlefield is money mindset. Now, just to kind of, well, the other portion of money of the battlefield is like the economics rules of the game. And we’re going to get into that more next month. We’re going to start a series unpacking inflation and, like, what you need to do and your responsibility and why things are happening and just very foundational to help you move forward and remove that fear. But what we’re going to talk about today within the battlefield, the money mindset, is when those fears show up.
How Other People’s Money Wins Affect You
Okay, it’s not just fear even that shows up. That causes those column breakdowns to happen within your money. A lot of times, even hearing about other people’s money wins can be quite triggering for a variety of reasons. You can instantly tell yourself, like, you know, it’s not possible for me. You might even begin to judge the person. A lot of times we’ll feel like, shame or embarrassment because we’re not further ahead, or you can go the other way. And, like, that’s an exaggeration. It’s made up all of those things. And honestly, that’s why I don’t share a lot of client wins.
Your Reactions Can Block Your Money Wins
Also, you know, we’re talking money, and it’s a little more personal. I want those clients to feel like they have the safe space, all of those things. But these reactions can block your money wins if you’re not aware of it, and I don’t want that to happen. We all have the same concern. Right. I briefly talked about inflation. You know, inflation showing up, you know, interest rates. We’ve, yeah, the media and news is, like, nonstop fear. And fear can kind of be contagious. I even saw a graphic this morning that was talking about, like, weather.
Don’t Let Fear Stop You
It was an image of weather. So they had the top image, and it was all green and pretty, and it had the weather numbers. The only thing they changed on the second image was they made everything red, so then it looked worse. And. But when we’re in fear like that, those fear responses, those emotions that are triggered, we avoid the action and we freeze, we stop. We don’t do the things that we need to. And again, it’s not about removing all of the fear, but we need tools to handle it. And that’s what I want to talk about today.
What to Do When Breakdown Happens
And like I said, we called them breakdowns. And my notes for this episode came directly from money mindset makeover blueprint, which is the standalone course. So I’ll make sure the link is in the show notes for that, because this is just, like, one portion. There’s so much that we can do, should do, need do, like, all of those things to help us move forward. And this is all about empowering you, again, to be unstoppable, to keep going when those things show up, when fear shows up, how can you manage it? How can you navigate it when you are put into that emotion?
It’s Not Always Smooth Sailing
Alright, so breakdowns kind of said this, but, you know, this is in my notes. So we’re gonna cover it. It’s not gonna be smooth sailing. You’re gonna have rough days. You’re gonna have bumps in the road. And when it feels like the stuff is at the fan. I might. It might feel like all of the hard work that you’ve done, all of the things that you’ve done, especially when it comes to your money and you’ve made all this progress and then something comes up and, you know, there were refrigerator breaks or the ac goes out, whatever it might be. It might feel like all the hard work has gone out the window, but it hasn’t because the habits that you’ve put in place and the work that you’ve done up into this point is so much more important.
Action Steps for When Breakdown Happens
Those action steps that you take consistently day in and day out and everything that you’ve gone through has created the space for where you’re at now. Okay, we just got to start with that. So let’s get tactical. What can you do when those breakdowns happen? What are some tools to have in your tool belt? And we’re going to go through, I think it’s like five or six different action steps for today. I want you to pick one to start to implement. Okay. So just don’t try and do it all at once. Everything, you know, gradually add these things and sure, take notes so that you can reference things back because sometimes things will feel more aligned than others.
Utilizing Breath Exercises
The first thing is going to be utilizing breath exercises. Now, I am not somebody who’s like certified to do any of like the special breath work and those things, you can definitely go and dive into that. There are so many people that are qualified to do that to help you with that regulation there. But even just as simple as taking a second to settle yourself breathing in through your nose for 4 seconds, exhaling for eight. I am not going to try and demonstrate that because every time I do while I’m talking, it just doesn’t work. But just something as simple as taking a minute and settling yourself, taking a breath. Okay.
Have a Coach for an Outside Perspective
Second tool in your tool belt to have would be to have a coach have that outside perspective. That is why the fourth part we’re going to talk about that next week of the unstoppable finances framework is coaching. Because you get through stuff so much faster when you have somebody on your side helping you. It’s not that you can’t do it alone. You can. You absolutely can. I know it. You’ve got this. You’ve got all the stuff you need. You have everything you need, but you get through things faster with having somebody in your corner that has that outside objective perspective helping you and what that capacity will look like, can look like. So there’s so many different options. Okay.
Get Outside and Get Some Sunshine
So I don’t want you to write that off because I can’t do that right now. All right? There are support solutions out there to have a coach. Alright, so that’s the second one. The third one is get outside. Staying barefoot in the grass is ideal, but just get outside, get some vitamin D, take a drive with the windows down, go for a walk in the park, take the kids out somewhere, do something or move outside, sit outside and work. Get outside. Get the vitamin D, get the sunshine, get the fresh air. It helps so much.
The Three-Step Question Process
Okay. The fourth one is a three step question process that you can ask yourself. Alright, the first question within this process is what’s going on right now? And understanding, like, what are we feeling? What’s going on? I’m sorry, what’s going on right now? Without the emotions, just tactical surface level, what is actually true, valid, no emotions. I am sitting here speaking to you. I’m wearing a red shirt, like, just tangible. It’s not like I’m feeling hot because it’s July in Texas and we have to turn the fan off when I record, like, that’s feeling. Okay, tactical. What are things? What is actually going on? The second one, this is a little bit harder by yourself, but I know you can do it.
Where Does It Come From?
Where does this come from? What is the, what is the source? Because our subconscious mind is designed to protect us. And when something happens where we felt threatened, afraid, scared, all of those things, our mind remembers. And it’s like, I don’t want that to happen to you again, so that I’m going to protect you. And this is something that’s truly an ongoing process. And once you’re aware of that, then you can use the tools to remove it.
Moving Through the Three-Step Process
This is only the second question in the three step process. But where does it come from? Is it growing up, you felt like there was an expectation to do the right thing, to get the good grades or whatever it might be. And it might not even be that. Your parents expected that of you, but you felt like they expected it from you. Maybe you were looking for that love and accept, love and acceptance, worthiness and all those things. So you put that on yourself. Wasn’t even them. You put that on yourself. So now you’re afraid to make the wrong mistake, to make a mistake, because then it’s going to say, like, you messed up and then you’re not.
Identifying the Source of Feelings
You see how it, like, is compounding or something as simple as, you know, not having like, the funds. Maybe there was like a traumatic event that happened and later on, you can’t even look somebody like even walk drives by that or a text message or tone or whatever it remember, you trick, it triggers you and you remember it. So where is it coming from? And if you can’t figure that one out, you can’t figure out that one. Just keep going on. Keep going.
Is It True?
The third question, is it. Is it true what that means? Is this feeling, these emotions, that failure, that rejection, whatever you’re feeling in relation to what’s going on right now, is it actually true? Is it concrete? And while it might feel true, it’s not your emotions, your feelings are valid, but it’s not tied to this circumstance. All right, that fourth one, it’s a lot there and I share it just because it’s a skilled and something that I can work like I utilize and walk myself through.
Getting Help from a Coach
But it’s also something that I had a coach work with me for years as I was developing that skill of working myself through that and being the intra intra perspective, looking at myself and being able to identify it. And it’s not about identifying these things to beat yourself up. It’s information so you can understand and you can move forward because we don’t want to get stuck in the just looking back and overanalyzing everything that we’ve done before. You’re moving forward, you’re taking action. And it’s not even necessarily about taking action. It’s about moving forward, doing things differently next time. Okay. When those emotions are showing up, there’s a couple other tools that I love to utilize, like journaling and eft.
Using Journaling and EFT
Actually, there’s a journaling process in combination with EFT that I have really leaned into recently. That’s not one that I can. I am not the authority there that I can’t really speak on that and train on that. If you want information on what I’m utilizing, just send me a message on Instagram. I can share it with you. That way we can have a peer to peer conversation. Right. Okay. But let’s get tactical because we did 1234, kind of five. I want to give you a tactical step to do when these things show up.
Taking a Financial Snapshot
Like, what can I do to help myself reframe now, of course, the getting outside the breath work, all of those things. Like that definitely helps. But take a financial snapshot. Taking a financial snapshot is a great place to kind of resettle yourself when it comes to the numbers. But again, you have to be able to remove yourself and just look at the factual numbers. But these are the numbers that I would get together in a financial snapshot. Alright, do you have any bills that are past due? It’s the first part a, since we’ve already used numbers. A, part a, bills that are past due, part b, what money do you have in the accounts? Checking accounts, savings accounts, etc.
Listing Your Debt and Assets
Part C, what are the debt numbers? Just writing them down, having them. What are they at? Part D is your asset number. So, you know your debt would be what you owe on the vehicle, the assets, the value on the vehicle, jewelry, all of those things. And then, let’s see, 12345. Okay. So e, what bills are coming up that need to be paid or auto paid?
Final Thoughts and Action Steps
So if you’ve got that list of the monthly expenses, you’re taking a look at that, what needs to be paid, what’s already set up to be auto paid, and then part f, like, where are you at looking at that? Okay. So what’s the one next step that you need to do with that snapshot? Okay. And that one next step might be like, okay, I have the money here, actually, to knock out a debt.
Planning for Upcoming Expenses
A debt I can settle on. Medical especially, does this all the time. If you settle with a credit card company, most of the time they close the account. So you got to think about the ramifications on your credit from that. That can be a smart move. But again, we’re not going to do the cookie cutter thing. Another action step that you can take from that would be maybe there’s a savings account that you can fund better. You’ve got money sitting in the checking account that doesn’t need to be there. Earn a couple bucks of interest on it, put it in a savings account. The third one could be, maybe there’s an upcoming expense that you need to prep for so that you don’t just have to put it on a credit cardinal. I mean, you can always put it on the credit card and then have the money in the checking account. Just pay it off so that you get the points. Like, that’s what I would do.
But making maybe that’s the upcoming expense that you know that you’re gonna have to play plan for. I know by the time this airs, we’re probably gonna be back to school, but I’m recording this a little bit earlier in the summer. So what I’m working on is back to school list and planning for that and knowing what it’s gonna be. Sure, I probably could have done it earlier, but I’ve also got the strategy that, again, it’s not a big deal. All right. There was a lot in this one and I I want you to have the tools that you need to when those emotions come up so that you can move forward. I want you to be equipped and do those things and have those tactics, but I don’t want you to get overwhelmed from this episode. So if you don’t have your one single action stuff that you’re going to do moving forward, maybe replay it. Pick the one action step and if you’re still feeling stuck, get support. I’ll put a link in the show notes below. Send me a message on instagram.
Get Support if You Need It
Let’s get you into momentum. Let’s get you out of that fear that stuck, that paralyzed, because I know that you can do it. So that’s it for now. We’ve got one more episode in our series. I’m excited for next week. It’s going to be a lot of fun. We’ll see you then.
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